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什么叫做爱?谁又是我的生命的爱人!-mmxhero|邱少日记|邱少网|邱少时空站什么叫做爱?谁又是我的生命的爱人!

 

什么叫做爱!之前很多人诙谐地调侃过这个词,

玩文字游戏的人可以理解为make love,人与人的身体的交合,

当然跟我要在这里定义的完全不同了;

那么怎么定义“爱”呢? 

我自己的定义:“爱”是一个生命体对其他生命体的尊重,理解,守护和支援。

而上面大众定义的内容我则很明确的叫它“性”--生命体之间生殖器官的媾合。

人作为大自然的一部分,爱显然存在于万物生灵之间;

人作为高级文明生物,相互之间在尊重的基础上有了解之后可能产生相互吸引力,

继而产生想持续在一起生活的欲望,相互守护,相互支援;

当然也有可能差生抗拒力,就是互做陌生人了。

作为人的我,作为地球文明的高级代表的我

很确定人类的爱与性在文明的发展中最终是分开的;

所以我给自己定义:我的爱人就是我喜欢和被喜欢的具有某种特质的人。

我的生命的爱人也是我生活中志趣相通的伙伴;

当我与我的爱人产生身体的交合时,那么它仅仅是性享受,如同享受一餐美食而已。

人生就是在爱的过程中有许多这样或那样的享受,

每一种享受都不叫生活,但全部合一起就是生活了,所以懂了生活才能懂爱;

没有生活认识的爱那仅仅是叫一时的享受,不叫爱,所以不会持续,更谈不上永久。

我希望我的爱人懂得享受(性)更懂得生活!因为只有生活才能支持爱。

其实我喜欢一个人或爱一个人 

决定性就是看人的特质(诸如文明,好学,聪明,立志,专长,兴趣,世界,共享etc) 

是不强分性别男或者女的;

不过因为现实世界的关系,探索自身爱的人时间久了 

发现我喜欢的特质99%的概率会出现在男孩子身上 

所以我生活中表现出来的就是:我更喜欢男孩,但不是同性恋。 

我并不喜欢现行社会的定义的同性恋人群 

(因为他们性的追求与男女间性的世界大同小异),

我要是同性恋只能说我喜欢的人具有我喜欢的特质 

与大众不同的是这个人也是男性的,有时候也会有1%的几率喜欢看或欣赏一个女孩

(当然具有我喜欢的人的特质),

不过总的来说 因为大陆现行世界的爱情观令我乏味,

所以我目前的状态是性幻想除了大多时候是男孩更多趋向是做自己火星人独善其身。

后记:本来今天没打算写什么感想的,

只是因为碰巧看到一个20岁的学生的情爱经历自述让我很有默契,

顺便就记录自己的一直浮腾却没有沉淀下来的认识。

如果路人没看懂,可以当我是火星人--来自未来2000年的外空文明,

只是不希望把你们弄糊涂了 呵呵。

 

 

mmxhero 写于 湖北省汉川市西江乡前锋村103号  

 

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